The main emphasis of this weekend was rest. I can't believe how tired I was on Friday. I was tucked up by 10.30 pm and did not wake up once until 10 am on Saturday morning. I think that tells its own story. Saturday was spent continuing to sort out the house (we have moved recently) and watching the racing all afternoon.......just what was needed!
Yesterday I told three of my children about Dad's condition. I was not able to tell William and will not do so until his exeat in just under two weeks time. But on the basis that there is no way for him to find out, I am relaxed.
I have to say it was easier than I expected. It is the sort of thing where you MUST be honest, both in what you say and how you answer any questions, but the key is in the tone. If you come across as emotional or upset, I suspect that that is the impression that will be left with the listener. I did not want them to be over-wrought or disturbed. I am confident that I succeeded. All are naturally concerned, but nothing more.
I did some more research into convalescent homes nearer Dad and Mole. Their appears to by an industry body/regulator called the Care Quality Commission, who inspect these establishment and write reports that are available to the public. Through their website, I discovered a place in Twickenham that sounds/looks fit for purpose, so I emailed the details to Mole.
Today sees the tour of the NHS ward at Hammersmith Hospital and the meeting with Mr Jiao for Mole, Alice and George.
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